Sunday, July 20, 2008

Love Hotel Madness at Lust Bites


Tomorrow is a special stop on my Amorous Woman blog tour. I myself play tour guide to the wonderful world of Japanese love hotels over at Lust Bites. It's going to be quite a party. First, you can play a very exciting game called Love Hotel Madness, where everyone is a winner. Then you can join in some mad-libbing with my co-host and Lord of Misrule, Jeremy Edwards. One lucky mad-libber will win a copy of my novel, Amorous Woman, which is like a trip to Japan all in itself.

Don't we all need a vacation?

See you there!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Talking Sexy on the Radio

Last Saturday, July 12, I drove through the Marin countryside up to lovely Point Reyes Station, California to give my first radio interview on Ellen Shehadeh’s View Point at KWMR 90.5 FM. Ellen talks with people who “have a passion for what they are doing” and I was honored to be given the opportunity to talk about my passions: Japan, erotica, food and my new novel, Amorous Woman.

I’ll confess I was terrified before the show, although I knew I had a lot of things I wanted to say about my topics. From the start, however, Ellen made me feel very comfortable and I was reassured that we were working together, as if I were just sitting down with an intelligent person who was interested in finding out more about my work. Of course, radio does have its special rules—Ellen explained there were certain words I wasn’t allowed to say on the air, although I used them aplenty in my novel! That’s the expected George Carlin list along with things like “pissed off.” Who knew?

Show time approached and the “Pair of Doc’s” show participants before us came out of the broadcasting room. We didn’t have much time to get settled, Ellen before the control panel, I with headphones, positioned before a large yellow mike, hoping I could find the “sweet spot.” I had my bottle of water next to me in case of dry throat and a pulse pounding with expectation tinged with fear. Ah, but aren’t we all nervous at a time like this?

Then it happened. View Point was on the air. Ellen introduced her show and me, making me sound much more impressive than I felt. Then it was my turn. Would my voice come out a pathetic squeak? Or fail me all together? No, I managed to do a reasonable imitation of an ordinary human being as I thanked Ellen for having me on the show. And then I was off and running, chatting away about my favorite topics as I actually do with a friend! I had a blast!

Again, Ellen was the perfect host, easing me along with provocative and interesting questions, helping smooth over one moment when I found myself at a loss for words. There is a real art to interviewing and I was very lucky my first experience was with a real artist. I never had to say I was “pissed off” because I felt quite the opposite—exhilarated and enthusiastic.

If you missed the live show at 11 am last Saturday, you have another chance to listen this Friday, July 18 at 11 am PDT. If you’re near Point Reyes Station, turn your dial to KWMR 90.5 FM. If you’re not, you can go to KWMR’s web site where they stream the broadcast “live” at that time. Just click on “on air” at the top of the page. I’m also going to get a copy of the show and can make that available to you upon request if you missed it the second time, too.

Another confession. I haven’t listened to the show yet myself, although my husband seemed happy and impressed with it (but he has to be, if he wants sex). So, I’ll be listening on Friday, too, perhaps groaning and wincing at how I sound the way people are wont to do when they hear their own voice. But I have to say that the experience itself was so very positive, I’m glad I did it no matter what! Thank you, Ellen, and thank you, Amorous Woman, for taking me places I never thought I’d visit.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

The "Next Oprah" Interviews Me!

Actually, I wonder if Oprah could do as well--could you resist spilling all of your secrets to those dreamy brown eyes? Maryanne Stahl, author of Forgive the Moon and The Opposite Shore, a wonderful writer and an immensely generous mentor to so many writers, interviewed me for the July/August issue of Eclectica Magazine, which offers a delicious buffet of poetry, short fiction, essays, reviews and interviews with creative types--even, gasp, erotica writers. This interview explores bold new territory for me, in particular my take on feminism and creativity, why I like writing sex scenes, why submission can be empowering and all sorts of other juicy topics. It's like listening in on an intimate conversation between two friends telling all over tea--and believe me, this one is worth eavesdropping on! So pop on over to the interview and let me know what you think.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Amorous Woman Gets Sage and Vivacious

Lydia's safely back in the pages of Amorous Woman, acting out all of her steamy scenes with renewed enthusiasm, and so we've chugged on to the next stop on our amorous blog tour: a little chat with Sage Vivant about sex and Japan, love hotels, more confessions about autobiographical moments in the novel and plenty of other spicy topics.

When I first started blogging, I made a list of seven writers' soirees I'd like to attend. One involved talking shop in a low-lit San Francisco tapas place with Sage and M. Christian. Sometimes wishes do come true! Sage and I have had many delightful lunches in San Francisco, although mostly in a charming French bistro, called The Butler and the Chef. I can't resist their fabulous beet, walnut, and goat cheese salad--and am totally enchanted by the complimentary truffles for dessert. (However, if you're there around Thanksgiving, you must try the French-style pumpkin pie, the best on earth!)

Sage is definitely one of the writers who makes erotica a fun place to hang--she gives good blog, too! So check it and leave a comment and maybe we'll invite you along to The Butler and the Chef next time for some delicious talk....

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

I Need Your Help....

"July is hot," to quote Quilty Clare in Vladimir Nabokov's Lolita, and one of the steamiest events of my July is the release of the anthology Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, edited by the queen of blushing bottom erotica, Rachel Kramer Bussel. Rachel has just interviewed me on the Spanked blog--you can read it here.

Now, here's why I'm asking for help. Rachel asked me to name a favorite spanking story and I had one all ready with title and author, but there was another one I read a few years back that I can't identify, except that I remember, in rather remarkable detail, the plot. I describe it in the interview--if this rings a bell, please let me know!

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Juicy Whisperings in Your Ear

The Fourth of July marked a weekend of great discoveries and accomplishments. First the discovery, Neve Black highlighted a scientific report about chemical compound found in watermelon that acts similarly to Viagra. Good news for Independence Day partiers, but bad news for the drug companies? To my mind, the greater discovery is Neve's blog and her sexy writing!

Then today, my trusty technical adviser set me up to record my very first podcast! In honor of the high-summer holiday, I decided to start with a reading of my July column for the Erotica Readers and Writers Association, "Naked at the Farmer's Market," you know, something juicy but not too intense. Like every erotic artist, I believe it's best to warm up your audience slowly.

So, if you want to hear me praise melons in my very own voice, check out my podcast. Feedback is very welcome. Should I keep making podcasts? Record an excerpt from Amorous Woman perhaps so you can hear Lydia's voice as I did? Let me know what you think!

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

I've Found Her!


I am SO relieved to tell you I've finally found Lydia. Of course, I should have expected she'd head over to the blog of Jeremy Edwards--that picture of him in his boxers is pretty irresistible. First my wayward storyteller gives Jeremy a no-holds barred interview on what she really thinks about naked men, me as an author, and her life on "the other side" in Fictionland. Then she disappears into the fedora cupboard and then all we hear is soft moans and heavy breathing. Good thing for me her lust got the better of her this time around, too. I'm standing outside the cupboard door, my now-mostly-blank copy of Amorous Woman open to page one. Jeremy's going to lure her out with some feint about taking off his boxers and when she responds, which she always does to something like that, I'm going to snap the book shut on her and put her right back where she belongs! Come on over and join the fun--that is if you like to watch ;-)

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Spicy Secrets with Mars, Venus and Alana

My Amorous Woman blog tour continues with a stop at Alana Noel's very cool blog Mars with Mars and Venus. There's a (literally) steamy excerpt from my novel and a wonderful Q & A that was incredibly fun to do. You'll learn a lot of things about me I've never shared in public before: my pop culture indulgences, advice I'd give to my 13-year-old self and why I'm indebted to Diane di Prima. Alana's questions made me feel very clever and interesting and urbane, as if I were sitting in a cafe in Paris uttering witty, but significant things. I also mention the work of my good friend Susan DiPlacido, one of my favorite erotica writers and why I love her stories, so do go check it out. It's a whistle stop for artisanal ice cream in a homemade cone!

My Lesbian Love Affair with Melons


Fruit and vegetables turn me on. And nothing turns me on like a ripe, juicy, succulent melon. This month my column for the Erotica Readers and Writers Association (deservedly voted a top Web site for writers) is called "Naked at the Farmer’s Market: Ripe Stories, Juicy Fruit, and my Lesbian Love Affair with Melons."

July is the season to celebrate fresh fruit and I tell you how I pick my juiciest melons from the crowd, what I do when I get them home and what they’ve taught me about writing erotica.

So head on over to ERWA and try a free sample of summer’s sweet and sexy bounty!

Monday, June 30, 2008

Two Sparkling Reviews of Amorous Woman


I wanted to announce—with a big huge happy smile--two new reviews of Amorous Woman. The first appeared on Cocktail Reviews, a long and luscious (and perceptive) reading by Singapore Sling who awarded me a whole bottle of Moet et Chandon. Which I promptly drank right up! Singapore Slings are actually my favorite mixed drink, probably because I remember my older sister talking about drinking a few at El Tio Pepe in Washington D.C. her freshman year of college. When the waiter realized she was underage, he gave her free coffee. I like to pretend I’m at the Raffles Hotel, where the potion was invented, when I drink my lovely pink drink. Now I’ll always think of this wonderful review!

The other review, brief but eloquent, is a total thrill for me. Erotica Revealed reviewer Kathleen Bradean mentioned my book on her blog yesterday.

All I can say is--Wow.

Lydia is still on the loose, and given her loose behavior, I’m afraid she’s going to throw herself at some married man. But fortunately, two very insightful reviewers were able to read her story before she escaped--so I'll console myself with some more champagne. Your loss, Lydia, I would have shared!

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Lydia Escapes!

Oh, my, I've got a BIG problem! I was all ready to head off to the next stop on my Amorous Woman blog tour, and of course, went to dip into the novel for the perfect excerpt when--to my shock and horror--I discovered that Lydia has escaped! She's gone. No sign of her. The big chunks of missing text are worrisome enough, but I know that girl can get up to some major trouble when she's on her own and feeling frisky.

The problem is, I think she's just discovered the Internet, and how easy it is to flit around the world that way. She's definitely not doing the nun thing anymore, so she's doubtless on the prowl for some good times. I certainly wouldn't want to endanger any of my friends' primary relationships because of that copper-haired vixen's shameless behavior. So keep an eye out for her--and do inform me of any cyberspace sightings. I can't rest until that wayward trollop is back where she belongs!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Erotic Haiku--Show Off Your Briefs


So, they’re having an erotic haiku contest over at Lust Bites and of course as the author of an erotic book about Japan, I felt duty-bound to compose a few poems. I also had fun doing it, too. Something about counting syllables (5-7-5) gives you a focus that allows surprising images to sneak into your head. Just as fun was reading the other entries for the contest. One of my favorites is by Jeremy Edwards—very sensual and cozy. Jeremy always makes me smile!

Buttocks on my lap—
Squirming heaven, oven-warm.
My playbill wrinkles.

Here are the two I composed on my morning walk, counting fives and sevens on my fingers:

Love hotel lobby
The bondage rooms all taken
Sunday in Tokyo

"I'll wash you," he says
Soapy hands between my thighs
Men's bath at midnight

Now, these are by no means classic haiku. They don’t have a seasonal word (kigo), for example. The classic haiku has a seasonal word, which doesn’t have to be as obvious as “cherry blossom” for spring. However, you do have to be aware of whether your word conjures early spring, mid spring or late spring. A frog suggests the entire spring season, but a colt conjures late spring. Cats “in love” are early spring (a good image for an erotic haiku?). Check out The Five Hundred Essential Japanese Season Words—it’s oddly compelling reading.

The classic haiku also has a certain dynamic that I’m not sure my poems achieve. Ready for a quick haiku lesson? You’ve probably seen this famous poem by Matsuo Basho, the great 17th century haiku poet:

The ancient pond
A frog leaps in
The sound of the water

The translation isn’t five-seven-five, but the original was, so trust me on that. Anyway, back in haiku grad school, my teacher told me that this poem illustrates the classic haiku dynamic: a fixed situation, a surprising action, the consequence of the action. And it does so literally, which makes it a favorite example for teaching. Still pond, restless frog, PLOP! Not all famous haiku express this in exactly the same way, but I mention it here to suggest that there’s more to haiku than just syllable counting. But pop over to Lust Bites and you’ll see exactly what I mean! You can enter the contest until June 27--and don't forget to add a few haiku in the comments right here on sex, food, writing or all three for our own little poetry party.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Lusty Ladies in Their Prime

I have a number of publications coming out this summer and one of the most exciting and definitely most fun to write is my story “The First Time” which appears in the newly-released 39 and Still Holding, edited by the fabulous Robin Slick. I’m very excited to be in one of Robin’s anthologies—she’s been a great mentor and inspiration over the years. We first met a number of years ago through the Zoetrope online workshop, where I was absolutely enthralled by early drafts of Robin’s wonderful, funny and very erotic novel, Three Days in New York City. She and I subsequently went on to appear in the same issue of In Posse Review and both used the image of a heart-shaped ass—pure coincidence and proof positive that great minds think alike.

The line up of authors in 39 and Still Holding is very impressive, and I’m especially excited to be in the company of another talented Zoetrope workshop mate, Kay Sexton. So, if you’re interested in some very hot stories about women who know exactly what they want and how to get it, check it out—you can read an excerpt of my story here.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Hot and Sexy on the Haight: Booksmith Rocks!

So, you want to know how my reading of Amorous Woman went at The Booksmith in San Francisco last night? I’d have to say it went very well and I’m so glad I did it for all kinds of reasons. Although right before the event I confessed to my co-reader, Liza Dalby, that I wasn’t sure why I’d voluntarily signed up for such an ordeal. In fact, at that moment, I wasn’t sure why I’d even been born.

But the moment of panic quickly passed. After all, I’ve done readings before. I’ve even done readings where I describe sexual encounters in lingering, loving detail using many dirty words. And I’d recruited, not to say begged, my friends, my kids’ teachers, my former college professors, and talented writer colleagues in the area to come hear me speak. I owed them a good performance!



I’m happy to say, it worked out fine. The gracious Liza Dalby, the only American to train as a geisha—and it shows in both her elegance and her lovely prose—opened the evening by reading a passage from her Japanese-style memoir, East Wind Melts the Ice. I really do love this book, which is a combination of follow-the-brush essays and an almanac of the seasons, blending ancient Chinese seasonal concepts with Japanese versions of the same and a modern Berkeley translation as well. For those with an armchair traveler’s and/or gardener’s interest, you’ll be enchanted by all you learn. For those of you who know Japan, it is full of nostalgia, but also many enlightening tidbits about Japanese history and culture. The particular passage Liza read was a favorite of mine because it gives a glimpse into the more tangibly romantic aspects of her encounter with Japanese culture back in her Geisha days. Liza also taught us a Japanese term for female orgasm mimizu senbiki (a thousand worms). “The quaking and wriggling of a thousand worms twisting together. Exactly.”

Liza and I had planned it so she provided a provocative appetizer while I served up a hot and steaming main course. I then read the scene from my novel where Lydia’s wealthy lover, Kazu Kimura, treats her to a night at the Imperial Hotel in Tokyo where a very special “gift”—in the form of a lovely Eurasian prostitute--awaits her. I had a good time reading it and my audience was wonderful. In every corner of the room was an engaged, smiling face to serve as an anchor for my gaze. The crowd was a modest but respectable fifteen or so but they were the best, and so cool to make time in their busy schedules for my reading. And the question-and-answer period afterwards was intelligent and lively, not a stumper in the bunch. Fortunately I had the help of Japan veterans Liza, Wendy Tokunaga (author of Midori by Moonlight) and my dissertation adviser, Susan Matisoff, to add valuable insights. As I said at the reading, we provided a very Japanese-style consensus by committee.




It was easy to do my best at The Booksmith under the utterly charming and consummately professional guidance of Thomas Gladysz, the events coordinator. After the discussion, Liza and I adjourned to a real, live author signing table with really nice pens! I also signed some extra stock, which is one of The Booksmith’s specialties. You can get signed copies of many newly-released books. They are so supportive of authors, even newbie eroticists like myself, and I urge everyone to shop there and of course buy lots of copies of signed books, especially mine! Okay, so I’m slipping into whiny, self-pitying artist mode here, but too often people on the business side of publishing don’t treat writers with respect. Thomas and The Booksmith were awesome and if you’re a writer or you love a good book, please reward them and their fellow independent booksellers with your business.

In the popular culture, a “successful writer” is one who makes lots of money. But I have to say that in my odyssey of book promotion I’ve found real wealth in the generosity of so many other wonderful writers, reviewers and booksellers. In that regard, Amorous Woman has made me very, very rich indeed.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

AW Blog Tour: Can Men Write Erotica?


The next stop on my fabulous Amorous Woman Internet Tour is the blog of Craig Sorensen, one of the most exciting new voices in the erotica world today. Craig is a gold member of that very exclusive club, Men Who Can Write Sex Scenes That Don't Make Me Roll My Eyes But Are Actually Intelligent Not To Mention Hot or MWCWSSTDMMRMEBAAINTMH for short. Craig definitely has a way with words, so check out his musings on "eroticists" and sexy writing here.

By the way, don't you think he looks a bit like Carlos Santana?

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Dr. Erotica Returns to Princeton

I’ve been so busy with book promotion, I haven’t had a chance to give you all a report on my trip back to Princeton for my 25th Reunion. I’m pretty sure the twenty-fifth is the most attended reunion for Princeton graduates. I didn’t check statistics, but when I signed the book, the number of attendees was close to five hundred, about half of the graduating class. And we’re not just talking a dinner with some speeches. Reunions weekend started on Thursday, May 29 with a public service project and ended on Sunday, June 1 with a nice brunch in the brand-new Whitman College dining hall with made-to-order omelets and plenty of roasted asparagus left over from the Italian dinner the night before.

In between, I showed my kids the lovely Princeton campus—with many new additions since my day. We attended some great talks like the panel with prominent Princeton alum journalists, including Todd Purdham who later appeared on the JetBlue TV screen on our return trip, defending his hard-hitting expose of Bill Clinton (Purdham seemed like such a sweet man!) in Vanity Fair. We went to the Triangle Show, where I once worked stage crew back in the day, and I have to admit it’s gotten much funnier and edgier than when an old vaudeville guy named Milton directed the show with the conservative tastes of the old alums foremost in his mind. The climax of the weekend was of course the P-rade, where our great class of 1983 led the way through the main gate and on down through campus to the soccer field in our new orange and black blazers, to be followed by contingents from the major reunions and finally the frisky class of 2008, who were learning how to be Princeton alums before they'd even graduated. Princeton is after all a lifetime commitment.

I can’t leave out mention of the food, which is also improved since my days working reunions. I remember steak, baked potatoes and limp green beans. For dessert, frozen cheesecake, which I remember prying apart and putting on plates as part of my duties. I liked working reunions because the alums would wink at me and say, “golly, I wish we had girls at Princeton back in my day.” By coincidence as James and I were walking out to the class dinner at the bucolic grad college, an older alum called out cheerily to us, “that's a good-looking jacket…and a good-looking wife.” Perhaps I should have been offended, but it all seemed charmingly nostalgic instead.

But back to the food…so instead of steak we had chicken breast with mango salsa and grilled vegetables and green beans steamed al dente with feta cheese and cherry tomatoes. The cheesecake was still on the menu, but one had several choices—chocolate cherry or oreo cookie or lemon. Breakfast sucked though—just bagels and muffins, coffee and juice. My body can’t take a carb-only start to the day any more….I’ll talk more about the delicious reception at my eating club in another post, which I came to realize, is the real root of my foodie flowering.

I’ve covered buildings and food, but, yes there were people at reunions, too. Besides a contingent of roommates I’ve kept in touch with regularly over the years, I did get a chance to chat with some friends I haven’t seen in many years. I even sold a few of them a copy of my book, although once at Princeton I felt suddenly shy about broaching the subject with people who knew me before I turned into Dr. Erotica. My most surprising and fun sale was to the fiancé of a friend of my roommate, a therapist who told me to sign the book “to the guy I just met, thanks for the $8.” And I did.

Perhaps strangest of all is that I discovered my college age self is still alive inside me. She still dislikes loud, big parties that reek of beer but also finds they fill her with that same bittersweet sense of yearning. She still recognizes so many faces among her classmates and wishes she could know more of them better but doesn’t have the courage to make the first move. She’s still able to endure the hardships of college life with aplomb—bunk beds, bathrooms down the hall, public laundries (although in Whitman College they are inside and FREE!) She still finds Princeton achingly beautiful and yet somehow remote, just out of reach, but always promising something, something she can never quite grasp.



Another interesting note—the class of 1983 is on the same reunion schedule as the class of 1973, the first Princeton class to have women graduates who’d attended all four years. Now they have two styles of reunion jackets, the regular boxy cut for men, a tailored style for women.

Princeton really does do quite a job with their reunions. Three and a half days of dinners, parades, dancing, drinking, air-kissing. I wonder if any other college puts on such a long, elaborate party? Has anyone else gone back to a college reunion—and what was it like? Were you glad you went? I am glad I went, but I don’t see myself going back to Old Nassau until my fiftieth if I make it that long. Until then I’ll put my orange and black jacket and straw hat in storage (to be taken out for Halloween now and then). But between now and then I’ll no doubt think of Princeton—as lovely a setting as you could ask for to endure your adolescent angst.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Special "Amorous" Issue of Clean Sheets!

The next stop on my shinkansen express blog tour for Amorous Woman is the big, beautiful erotica mecca Clean Sheets! I'm a huge fan of this magazine, known since its founding for first-rate erotic literature. They were also the first erotica venue to publish me back in 2003. The story I wrote for their first contest "The New Libertine" took first prize and went on to make Best American Erotica 2006 in a longer form under the title "Ukiyo." As you see, Clean Sheets represents a lot of "first's" for me!

But enough about the past. This week Clean Sheets is running three features about Amorous Woman. Leading the way, a review by Gwen Masters, one of my very favorite erotica writers. Praise from Gwen is high praise indeed! There's also an illustrated travelogue of photos of settings from Amorous Woman that I took during my trip to Japan in April. Wanna see where Lydia fell in love with the elegant dentist? The hot spring bath where she got into mischief? The streets of Gion where she escaped to indulge in seedier adventures? Or perhaps you'd like to climb the red stairway to the "Banana Room" and see what mysteries lie within to tickle your banana?

Finally, the Pillow Fiction section has my brand-new, never-before-seen story "The Day the Sun Goddess Got Laid" which is a riff on an ancient Japanese myth, with a decidedly erotic twist. Come frolic with the Japanese gods on the High Plain of Heaven. Things get pretty wild up there....

So stop by Clean Sheets and do leave a comment saying how wonderful and talented you think I am (but only if you mean it, of course!)

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

UK Forum Gives Kudos to Amorous Woman!

Book promoting is a seriously hard work, but sometimes you get a sweet reward for all of that running around mailing out review copies. I just learned that Amorous Woman got a very positive review in UK Forum, by the editor Elizabeth Coldwell herself. This is especially thrilling because Ms. Coldwell's opinion is very well-respected and she's read lots and lots of erotic fiction, so she knows provocative fiction like no one else. I broke open a bottle of bubbly for this one, let me tell you. Here's the review:

"Having been turned on to the pleasures of sex by her female cousin, Lydia takes a job in Japan and falls in love with the country as well as the men who live there. However, her marriage to salaryman Yuji quickly begins to lose its luster when she discovers they can’t have children, and eventually she finds herself embarking on a string of affairs before taking a job in a hostess bar. And all the time, she is haunted by the erotic spectre of the fantasy man she created in her mind as a teenager to guide her sensual pleasure, and whose flesh-and-blood form she seems to be seeking among the older men to whom she is inevitably attracted…

Like her heroine, Donna George Storey has lived and worked in Japan and this, her first novel, is a perfect example of writing about what you know. Not only are Lydia’s adventures lusciously and erotically described, so is the Land of the Rising Sun itself. As for Lydia, she follows the well-trodden path of expanding her sexual experience via same-sex trysts, threesomes and bondage, but there’s a freshness to the descriptions and a coming to terms with her needs and desires which lifts her beyond the two-dimensional. A highly enjoyable read. E.C."

Here, I'll get a glass for you and we can all toast UK Forum and amorous women and highly enjoyable reads! Kampai!

Monday, June 09, 2008

My Book Party was a Great Success!















Yesterday marked the inaugural event of my Amorous Woman “in the flesh” book tour—a sushi brunch and reading/discussion of the book at my friend Sharon’s beautiful house in the Berkeley hills with a stunning view of the Bay and the famous bridges. I love my little craftsman bungalow, but the lighting is nowhere near as lovely for a book party. So thank you, Sharon, for providing the perfect venue for my book launch. Big huge thanks go to my friend and mentor, Autumn Stephens (author of the Wild Women series and editor of the amusing and thought-provoking anthologies Roar Softly and Carry a Great Lipstick and The Secret Lives of Lawfully Wedded Wives, for organizing the party and encouraging me to celebrate my achievement. I wouldn’t have done it without her!

Twenty guests helped themselves to sushi, New York style mini-bagels with a really nice lox cream cheese, shrimp shumai and vegetable gyoza, a pile of sweet strawberries and melon, rice crackers, mimosa and Japanese teas, hot or iced. Special guests included fellow Japan writers Liza Dalby, author of Geisha, The Tale of Murasaki, and East Wind Melts the Ice, and Wendy Nelson Tokunaga, author of Midori by Moonlight. Liza and I will be reading together at The Booksmith on June 17, so if you missed the brunch, come on down to the Haight for some hot Japan-inspired prose.

I’ll admit I was so busy getting ready for the brunch—dashing off to the Chinese grocery store for the dumplings, ordering the sushi, making sure my dark blue cheong sam was ready to slip into to make a good impression—that I didn’t really have time to prepare my introductory comments. I spent the spare moments the morning of the brunch mumbling to myself about how I would open the talk and fortunately came up with a sort of dumb joke. And so, as noon approached, I called the guests to assemble, took my place before the picture window with the sparkling San Francisco Bay behind me and began to speak.

Yes, there should be pictures, but my sainted husband was too busy steaming dumplings to do the honors. So just imagine—I looked good. I looked very good—sexy, slinky, superb!

I started off by thanking everyone for coming then went on to describe my fantasy of what it would be like before to write a novel before I wrote a novel. I pictured myself slaving away at my computer for months on end, lost in an artist frenzy. Of course I’d have to develop some addiction, to cigarettes or whisky or maybe diet Snapple, which is what actually happened as I was writing Amorous Woman. Then I’d go through the inevitable struggle to find a publisher, but once that happened, things would proceed apace and one wonderful day a box of my books would arrive at my doorstep and I’d hold my newborn baby novel in my hands—the happy ending to my story.

What I didn’t realize of course was that the publication of the book was just the beginning—as birth is just the beginning of parenting. The next part of becoming an author involves promoting the book, which is quite a switch for a person who prefers to sit alone at the computer in my pajamas and make up stories. However, in spite of the challenges selling my book and myself, I also discovered that connecting with readers and other writers, who have been INCREDIBLY supportive, has been so enriching to my spirit. I’ve come to realize that writing isn’t just a solitary endeavor. When someone reads my novel, they are giving me the gift of their time and attention, much more so than when they read a short story—although I’m grateful for that, too, of course! But, to borrow an analogy from the erotica genre, a short story is like a quickie encounter with a stranger. A novel is like an all-out affair.

So, I said some stuff like this, then introduced my book and my inspiration, Ihara Saikaku’s The Life of an Amorous Woman. Then I read one of the only PG-rated passages in the book, where Lydia has a flirty blowfish dinner with a patron of the hostess club where she works in chapter nine. Afterwards we had a very nice discussion about various aspects of the novel, stereotypes of Japan and erotica writers, differing reactions to the cover by men and women and other juicy topics. As a sweet finale, the guests were treated to three different kinds of my homemade cookies, which are pictured above—yin-yangs (half vanilla dough with chocolate chips, half chocolate dough with white chocolate chips), chewy pecan squares (brown sugar caramel with pecans on a shortbread crust) and Finnish spoon cookies (browned butter dough shaped with my grandmother’s wedding spoons from 1919 and sandwiched with raspberry jam). These treats are half of my famed Christmas cookie boxes and were apparently a big hit with the guests. I also signed some books. Many thanks to those who bought a copy or several!

When I published my first book, Child of Darkness: Yoko and Other Stories by Furui Yoshikichi, I gave away a lot of copies to family and friends. Some of the latter didn’t realize I was the translator until much later! But I didn’t do any kind of party or public acknowledgment of the book. Fortunately I had a chance to make up for that with Amorous Woman. And I’m very glad I did!

Saturday, June 07, 2008

A VERY Sexy Interview, Capone-style

My Amorous Blog Tour 2008 continues with a stop at the blog of Don Capone, author of Into the Sunset and honcho at Rebel Press.

It was a really fun interview, fully illustrated with photographs--don't miss the captions. And I have to say that photo of Ken Watanabe is HOT!

(There are some familiar favorite photos of me, too--and my thanks to Alison Tyler for making it possible!)

I discuss how NOT to write an erotic scene, Amorous Woman's future on HBO as "Sex and the City" set in Japan and why I chose fiction over memoir to immortalize my Japan experiences. Who knew a blog tour could be so much fun!

Check it out here and please leave a comment!

Friday, June 06, 2008

First Stop on the Amorous Blog Tour

My book is out in the US and it's time to head out on my blog tour! I've got some exciting stops planned, with a few in-person events along the way, and I think it is extremely appropriate that I start off right with a visit to the blog of Jolie du Pre, a wonderful erotica author and editor of Iridescence: Sensuous Shades of Lesbian Erotica.

Jolie has been a enthusiastic supporter of my work since I started writing and a fount of wisdom about the publishing biz since way back. She also asks some great interview questions that really got me thinking. I talk about the lessons I learned writing my first novel--tips anyone can use--the genesis of Amorous Woman and what lies ahead in my writing future. I've also posted a brand-new and very provocative excerpt. Please do stop by to read my interview on Jolie's blog and leave a comment!

Monday, May 26, 2008

Alana Noel Voth Has Great Taste in Fiction!

Well, she does! Just look at her list of stories that lingered, so many of which are on my "can't get 'em out of my mind" list:







Michael Cunningham's "White Angel"

James Joyce's "Araby"

Tim O'Brien's "The Things They Carried"

Maxine Hong Kingston's "No Name Woman"

Susan Minot's "Lust"

Raymond Carver's "Fat"

To my delight and disbelief, two of my stories made the list as well, "Blinded" and "Ukiyo" (both of which would also make my list of my own favorite stories, interestingly enough).

Making Alana's list is especially meaningful because she writes seriously excellent literary erotica. Her work is emotionally complex, often heart-wrenching, and amazingly insightful about the erotic impulse. "Attempt to Rise" in The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica 7 has an artful blend of playfulness and pain that would make any writer envious. "Waif" in I is for Indecent gives "indecency" a new meaning, but you won't understand the full impact of that until the punch-to-the-gut ending (especially for a parent).

You know, I can be a real whiner about the publishing biz and the lack of respect for erotica in our sex-phobic world, but Alana's list, which includes some other wonderfully talented writers like Martha Garvey and Jeremy Edwards, makes me remember what a vibrant and supportive community we have here in our little corner of the literary world. There's no place else I'd rather be!

Sunday, May 25, 2008

See Me in My Undies!

I don't know what's gotten into me recently. Maybe it's the heady thrill of having my novel available in the US? Whatever the reason, I seem compelled to flash pictures of my butt all over the Internet. Tasteful pictures, I hope, but still....

As soon as I got finished posting the hidden seven-eighths of my author photo, featuring what EllaRegina dubbed my "superior posterior," Ms. Alison Tyler, editor and erotica writer extraordinaire, asked me if I'd be up for posting a pic of my undies as part of the Panty Parade on her blog. How could I say no to that?

So I enlisted the aid of my favorite research assistant, aka my husband, and we snapped some photos. First we took a few of my "research drawer" which holds items you might recognize from my stories. It is very neat, but I tend to be methodical in my work. (My house is another matter altogether). Then I put on a favorite pair of leopard print undies from Victoria's Secret and did my impression of a Modigliani model--thanks, Alison, for that very kind comparison.

Come on, admit it, you're curious right? Satisfy that urge right here!

Saturday, May 24, 2008

My Book's In Stock on Amazon US!


Yay! Finally, my book is in stock on Amazon. You can buy it now and it will go in your shopping cart and you can add a few more things and get supersaver shipping and like...my book is really for sale in this country! It's been a long wait.... Somehow this seems like the REAL release date. Time to celebrate--how about homemade cornmeal crust pizza with roasted asparagus and caramelized onions? With a salad of organic lettuce and sweet tomatoes on the side? And naturally, a rustic but satisfying red wine. Come on over and let's celebrate!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Make A Scene: An Interview with Jordan Rosenfeld

I have a lot of writing reference books in my library—A LOT of writing reference books—and I’m rather picky when it comes to adding another one. But after reading Jordan E. Rosenfeld’s Make a Scene: Crafting a Powerful Story One Scene at a Time, I happily made room in the easy-access “favorites” section of my bookshelf. This is one of those rare a how-to books that not only makes me feel sharper as an editor, it inspires me to dive back into the creative phase of the process, not to mention the humor and flowing prose made it a true pleasure to read. The book is a great resource not just for scene-building but for all the fundamentals of good writing, with checklists, or “muse points,” to help make characters more compelling and plots--even if you write literary fiction!—into the foundation of a page-turner. Beginners will get lots of new information, while veterans (I guess I qualify?) will benefit from stepping back and examining why they do what they do from instinct. This book is invaluable for the editing phase of novel writing—remember, each scene has to earn its place--and I know I’ll be referring to it often!

I’ve asked Jordan to answer a few questions about her book, her writing process and, naturally, her favorite seductive foods.

DGS: Appropriately, your book opens with a compelling scene where Stephanie, an exuberant salsa dance teacher, inspires you to move your body with a grace and energy you didn’t know you possessed. It turns out Stephanie also teaches writing and was the first person to teach you how to write a scene. I love how you express the writer’s task in a way that pulls your all-important first scene together beautifully: “To write well, you must take the readers in hand and teach them how to move to your beat, or follow a mystery, or care about two lovers whose relationship is coming apart at the seams. Your reader must be able to enter your story as if it were the auditorium of a theater, or an empty dance floor with strange music playing.” Did Stephanie teach you any other lessons that you could pass on to aspiring writers?

JR: Well, Stephanie (who sadly passed away a few years ago at the unfair age of 51) was a very unique character—as a person and writer. I was actually quite intimidated by her at first because she was SO confident and bold and sort of devil-may-care. I’d say what she taught me most was not to try to be like any other writer—in other words, we often see a style or a success story and think, “I’ll do that…” in pursuit of success and ignore our own voices. She taught me to proudly claim your own voice and style even if it seems “hard to sell.”

In your chapter on “The Senses” you mention that one of your pet peeves is a lack of scenes with characters eating. I am on a one-writer campaign to redress this balance and I totally agree with you that “taste provides great moments of potential conflict and intimacy.” Do you have favorite “tasting” scenes from your own work or the work of favorite authors you’d like to share as an illustration?

JR: First I love that you’re on a campaign to redress this balance! Fantastic. In my own work I tend to favor using the preparation of food, actually, more often than the tasting of it—I like kitchen scenes. So much potential for drama—fire! Knives! Hot sauce! Family dysfunction! But in my novel The Night Oracle, my character falls for a bartender who likes to mix creative cocktails and even though she’s not a big drinker, she tastes these drinks of his because she’s drawn to him and I felt it was important that she find his creations both unusual and alluring. The absolute most wonderful food scene I’ve ever read is in a book called How to Cook a Tart, by Nina Killham. The main character is a woman in her 40s—a juicy, shameless chef who believes in flavor over diet—and this teenage boy starts to fall in love with her. But rather than giving in to his advances, she cooks him a meal he will never forget—it’s like she makes love to him with food—and then sends him on his way. Oh, what a great scene!

What challenges did you face in writing a “meta” how-to-write book as compared to writing fiction? Was there any chapter that was particularly easy to write or particularly difficult?

JR: Ironically, I find I’m actually rather good at “meta” how-to, because I’m such a know-it-all. I edit manuscripts for a living, as well, so I’m used to being a bit bossy that way. However, it started out easy and got harder and harder because I did come up against a number of ideas where I thought “What do I really know about this? And how can I effectively show what I mean?” The challenge with how-to writing is that you can’t just generally talk about your subject, you have to illustrate and give directions. My editor was constantly asking me, “So what’s the take-away lesson for the reader?” And I’d slap myself on the forehead and try to figure that out.

The hardest chapter, I think, was 23, Your Protagonist’s Emotional Thread. I couldn’t figure out, at first, how to demonstrate the idea that in order for a character to be successful they must be changing and developing scene by scene. In general, the hardest part of writing this book was that I couldn’t just rely upon my basic craft knowledge; I had to constantly bring back the topic to the scene itself.

One of the many riches of this book are the wonderful quotes and examples of great writers’ work. One of my favorites is Paul Auster’s “Every novel is an equal collaboration between the writer and the reader and it is the only place in the world where two strangers can meet on terms of absolute intimacy.” Whew, that’s a real reminder of the power of fiction! Another favorite is Leora Skolkin-Smith’s discussion of the magic of Alice Munro’s work. How long did it take to research and assemble your examples?

JR: Fortunately I was able to pull examples as I went (and it took me a good year to write the book because I did it slowly)—I didn’t have to assemble them in advance. For every chapter where I needed examples I would literally hit the library and check out books I had already read that I knew were in line with the topic. Or, if necessary, I’d buy them from the bookstore where I worked part time (I spent a lot of time just skimming books I’d read). In fact, as an aside, one day I checked out like 20 books at the library and the librarian says, “Are you really going to read all of those?” And I said, “No, I already have!” Needless to say she gave me a weird look. The epigraph quotes were actually harder to find than other examples because I wanted them to really capture the essence of the chapter. The Auster quote is one of my favorites now; I read it to students when I teach workshops as a reminder of that very important truth. I was otherwise really, really fortunate to have some great author contacts and friends willing to give me those “scene-stealer” analyses of fiction they’d read.

In Chapter 17, “Action Scenes,” you write “The American action movie has changed the way people think about action, and not necessarily for the better…actions can be smaller and more personal…” Do you think Hollywood has had a detrimental effect on the expectations of agents, publishers and readers in the current market?

JR: I don’t know if it’s fair to place all the blame on Hollywood for the changing expectations of agents/publishers and readers, but it has definitely had an impact. I think many people now want books to do what movies do, which, to me, means to bypass acts of imagination—after all, when we read, even if there are specific visual details, our minds have to flesh them into being and no two readers will envision the same. I think this has spiked the sales of commercial fiction and put yet another nail into the already heavy literary fiction coffin. I also think that the internet/TV are as much to blame as movies—especially the internet where everything is available instantly. We’re becoming a literal, visual culture that likes shortcuts. Books don’t allow for shortcuts (unless you speed read) so naturally agents/ editors are paying attention to what sells.

I can see myself referring to Make a Scene again and again as I write. Do you refer to it when you write fiction? Is there any particular section you look to most? Or would recommend to a beginning writer to focus on?

JR: I do actually refer to my own book—to refresh myself when I’m stuck somewhere in my own writing (and often I barely remember writing it). For beginning writers I think the first two parts of the book, “Architecture of a Scene” and “Core Elements” are really crucial, especially if the scene is still a murky concept. I wrote this book because I realized that I’d written for a long time before I understood what a scene was, and it wasn’t until I began to actively write scenes that my fiction became sharper, for lack of a better word, a symptom I see often in my clients’ writing. I also recommend the final part of the book, creatively called “Other Scene Considerations,” to new writers. The Scene Types section is going to be more useful to the intermediate and advanced writer.

Describe your dream writing project (marketability doesn’t matter here)—and what is next for you as a writer?

JR: Hmmm. I’ve been really attracted to this crossover fiction often called “fantastic” or “surreal” fiction in which reality gets played with, though the writing is still relatively literary, and it doesn’t get shelved as “fantasy.” Everything I’ve been writing in the last couple years seems to be dipping into this, and though I’ve had a couple good attempts—my agent tried to sell one of my novels and we came really close, but no cigar—I feel I haven’t landed the right concept yet. My dream project is to find that story, write it impeccably well and sell it J So that will also hopefully be my next project. I’m trying to finish the draft of another novel I wrote a year ago that does have fantastic elements, but it’s sort of kicking my butt. For non-fiction, I’d love to be paid to do the kinds of interviews I do for Writer’s Digest magazine but for much bigger money and far more often, and it can extend beyond just authors. Essentially I want Terry Gross’s job, of NPR’s “Fresh Air”—but in print rather than on the radio. I love interviewing people.

Actually, I could probably use some tips from you on that, too! Finally, I can’t let an interview go by on “Sex, Food, and Writing,” without asking you to describe a perfect meal that would be guaranteed to seduce you—at least into an intimate discussion of the writing life by candlelight, if you have other commitments that don’t allow for more....

JR: Truth be told, I’m not a foodie though I love to eat. And I’m a grazer rather than a big ole’ meal type of eater. But the kind of food that would seduce me into a heated conversation about writing and life (being a happily married girl) might involve a salad of warm goat cheese, beautifully ripe sliced apricots and almonds, fresh spinach and balsamic vinegar with freshly baked bread and creamy butter on the side. I’m far more likely to swoon over a dessert though—caramel ice cream with ripe raspberries and dark chocolate shavings or something…

Mmmm, I just bought a new Cuisinart ice cream maker and have several good ice cream cookbooks in my library. If I find a good caramel ice cream recipe, I owe you a great big dish for this delicious conversation! Thanks for stopping by, Jordan, and best of luck with your future projects.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Peek Into My Boudoir--The Secret Revealed

Okay, so I'll admit my author photo is a wee bit aged...but better for it, like a fine wine, I think. Not that I ever really walked around in all that lipstick with moussed up hair anyway, but erotica writers do need an aura of glamour, don't we? Not to mention mystery. But I'm in the mood for some revelation today, as a break from sending out invitations to my reading and brunch. (Writing a novel is SO easy compared to promoting it). As you can see, my author photo was not a head shot, but captured my entire body in repose against a length of white satin. I suppose the tale of my boudoir photo session might be worth telling some day, but since I have to get back to promotional activities, this will be all for today. At least you have the whole visual story--although I guess you have to tell me if the end is happy or not!

Monday, May 19, 2008

Book Party for Amorous Woman

Celebrate the Amorous Woman!

My new novel, Amorous Woman, will be released in the US at the end of May. Please join me for brunch and a reading to celebrate!

When: Sunday, June 8, 2008 from 11 to 1

Where: Berkeley, CA. Contact me at donna@donnageorgestorey.com for details

What: Nibble some sushi and sip tea or a sake-infused brunch beverage while I read a brief excerpt from my novel followed by an intellectually stimulating discussion of Japan, gender roles, sex, lies and amorous women the world over


About the Book:

Amorous Woman is the story of an American woman’s love affair with Japan and her intimate relationships with the many men and women she meets along the way. First-time novelist Donna George Storey, a widely published literary and erotica writer who holds a Ph.D. in Japanese literature, challenges the boundaries of culture and genre in this modern remake of Ihara Saikaku’s classic 17th century novel of the pleasure quarters, The Life of an Amorous Woman. Wise-cracking Lydia—the modern Amorous Woman—delves beneath the surface of Japanese society in her roles as English teacher, wife, bar hostess, and the mistress of a wealthy man. Described by critics as “rich with sensual detail, humor, and emotional complexity,” “hard to put down,” and “literary erotica at its best,” the novel will change your image of Japan—and erotica—forever.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

A "Bless"-ed Review of Amorous Woman

Just when all the work of book promotion was getting me down, I had a wonderful surprise in the form of a new and wonderfully intelligent review of Amorous Woman by Janine Ashbless, whom I first met over at Lust Bites. We also rubbed shoulders in Alison Tyler's I is for Indecent, and I must admit, indecent as it is, that her flagship story "Wet" really lingered with me. Whew, yes, some of the details of the story are just so vivid....excuse me a moment.

Okay, I'm not in the stairwell of a car park anymore, skirt raised, my taupe silk and lace panties abandoned, I'm back at my desk being very serious and focused ;-). So, anyway, because I admire Janine's work so much, it's especially cool that she liked--and "got"--my novel. I know that some erotica writers can get pretty jaded as readers, too, so I don't take this for granted. In fact, I know my colleagues are a tougher audience. So when words like this come my way, I'm a happy little smut writer indeed. Here's a teaser, click on over to Janine's blog for the whole tamale!

"My tolerance for contemporary erotic memoirs is normally pretty low but this author managed to keep my interest to the end, with her skilful interweaving of modern Japan, with all its contradictions, with the personal journey of a restless soul. A really fascinating read."

Thanks, Janine, I'm glad I could return the favor!

Friday, May 09, 2008

An Amorous Interview by the Queen of Cool


Click on over to Susan DiPlacido's blog to read her interview with me on the topic of Amorous Woman, sex in Japan, writing and Jimmy Hoffa. Susan is one of the coolest writers and people I know and so it's a huge honor for me to be interviewed on her blog this week among the latest scoop on "American Idol." Please leave a comment if you have the time!

Susan's blog has other good news, her awesome short story collection, American Cool, (believe me, it is WONDERFUL and sizzling with lots of very HOT stories) was named runner-up in the romance category at the Beach Book Festival. Congratulations, Susan!

Thursday, May 08, 2008

More Random and Shocking Facts About Me!

I’ve been tagged by Kay Sexton and I have to say I enjoy these “random fact” lists. It’s kind of an excuse to show and tell. This time the number is six, all random, all true!

ONE: I own a very sexy Tupac T-shirt, which my son wore to school and shocked his friends by saying it was his mom’s

TWO: My first paying prose publication was for a breastfeeding magazine

THREE: I read The Godfather in fifth grade—my introduction to sex scenes was the stand-up encounter between Sonny Corleone and Lucy Mancini at Connie’s wedding

FOUR: Farmer’s markets turn me on

FIVE: I’ve never had a good (romantic) experience with a guy named “Tom”

SIX: My happy juice of choice is a rustic, reasonably-priced red wine, although I’ll endure the expensive stuff on special occasions!

I'll tag my six victims soon--got to get their okay first!

A Great Interview with John Lennon


I posted a link to my column over at my online writers' workshop, Zoetrope, and a friend pointed me to a great interview with John Lennon and Yoko Ono by Tariq Ali and Robin Blackburn in 1971. You can read the interview here or check out a print version in Tariq Ali's Streetfighting Years: An Autobiography of the Sixties.

John is very candid about being a Beatle, religion, politics, feminism and more!

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

John Lennon Ate Here

I'm a bit late with my announcement, but I wanted to let you know that my May column is up at the Erotic Readers and Writers Association--John Lennon Ate Here: Fabulous Feasts, Fertile Fantasies, and "Following the Pen." I was always a "John girl" (aren't all writers?) and, although I'm not a celebrity hound about it, I was pleased to discover I was having lunch at a restaurant in the countryside near Kyoto where John and Yoko had dined in 1977. Of course, I also talk about sex and the traditional Japanese style of essay writing. Best of all, there are lots of mouth-watering pictures of Japanese food of the sort John himself enjoyed....

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Dirty Girls, Dirty Words and Kickass Cupcakes


So, I just wanted to report that I had a great time at the reading for Dirty Girls on Monday night. It was wonderful to have friends there to support me, the venue was a cool bar with red velvet banquettes and sake cocktails, and it was absolutely transporting to hear all the writers bring their stories to life with their sexy, expressive voices. (See the rest of the photos here.)

Rachel (far right--you know who she is) started off the reading with an excerpt from her introduction, which really does capture the wonderful variety of themes in the anthology. I think I fall into the "sultry sirens intent on performing on a sexual stage of their own creation" category...at least my story has lots of sexuality on stages anyway.

Melissa Gira (far left in the photo) went next with her beautifully lyrical "A Prayer to Be Made Cocksure"--it was even better when read with the passion and poetry Melissa brought to the mike. I chuckled in places when I read Gina de Vries' (center) "The Next Thing," but her performance brought the house down at times, when she wasn't tugging heart strings with the poignant scenes in her tale. I went next and read one section of my fairly long story--Dreams Before Bedtime, where the narrator fantasizes about what sex was like seventy years ago at the time of the Chicago World's Fair. It's one of my favorite parts of my story, so it was fun to read. Carol Queen (second from right) delivered her lighthearted and very sexy story, "Shocking Expose! Secrets Revealed!" with such energy and verve, it was absolutely contagious.

It was a real thrill to be part of such a talented group and to chat afterwards. Oh, I can't forget the cupcakes. I sampled the red velvet cupcakes--devil's food cake with chocolate chips and a tangy frosting--and the sunken lemon cupcakes that had this wonderfully crispy edge and a moist, tart-sweet center. They were just fabulous and I might have to cook up an event of my own so I can order a bunch more (Sharlene's Babycakes only does special orders).

Anyway, I had such fun, I'm a little less scared about my own reading on June 17. Except of course I'm still worried absolutely no one will show up. But I wouldn't be the first author to suffer such a fate--it'll make me more of a seasoned pro, no?

I am going to try to get to more readings, even if I'm not behind the mike. It's VERY inspiring!

Monday, April 28, 2008

My Web Site Gets the Nod from Lisabet Sarai!

As I'm preparing to go off for my reading at Cafe Royal in San Francisco with Rachel Kramer Bussel and the local luminaries in her latest anthology, Dirty Girls, I wanted to mention another cool thing that's happened this month. Lisabet Sarai has chosen my Web site as her link of the month for April! I'm so thrilled because I'm a big fan of Lisabet's writing and her review of Amorous Woman was so insightful. Hell, I learned some things about my novel from her....

Anyway, check out her newsletter, Web site and her sizzling hot novels and stories!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Tadaima: I'm Back!

We’re back from Japan and to make a two-week-long story short, it was FANTASTIC! It was the height of cherry blossom season and we saw some fabulous vistas of dream-like beauty (and found ourselves in the middle of some amazing crowds of flower lovers) photos of which I’ll share here over the next weeks. I also have lots of pictures of the delicious food we ate, the pleasure haunts of Gion, a few voyeuristic shots of maiko and geisha as they went about their evening’s work, and plenty of stories about our adventures. It was a sweetly multi-layered journey for me—and as you know, I love baking multi-layered sweets—as I got the chance to see my boys appreciate the country for the first time as well as to visit many places and friends I first encountered myself twenty-four (!!!) years ago. Best of all, I realize I love that place more than ever. Maybe there will be a sequel to Amorous Woman after all?

Many more pictures, stories and menus to come—stay tuned!

Friday, March 21, 2008

Rusty Barnes Talks about Writing, Sex and Food

Earlier this year, I reviewed Rusty Barnes’ flash fiction collection Breaking It Down, which I likened to an exquisite Japanese Buddhist meal with its a tray of tiny dishes, each serving up a tidbit of austere, perfectly-crafted, and ultimately enlightening fare. Today, I’ve asked Rusty to stop by to answer a few questions about writing, sex and food—in that order--with a special Japanese treat waiting for you at the end. Please note that Rusty is sporting a ‘Redneck Express Trucking’ cap in his author photo which is very much in keeping with the themes of his book.

How is writing flash for you different from writing a longer story?

It's honestly no different, for me. I begin all my stories by writing a flash, pretty much. I get some characters, I develop a scene, I see how they react, and if the story plays out after 500 or 1000 or 1500 words, I call it a flash, polish it and send it out. If I sense the story needs more development—or if I want to develop it—I do so, usually in short sessions of an hour or two at a time (that's all the time I get in a day to write). Even my longer stories tend to be short. I don't think I've written a story of more than 5000 words in ten years. The long ones are just too difficult to publish. I have nine or ten older long ones that have been through the rejection mill. I assume, since much of my material from that time was eventually published, that it's more a factor of their considerable, um, girth, that they're not published.

How has your experience as editor (and founder) of Night Train changed what you do as a writer?

It's changed me tremendously. I no longer dick around in stories setting a scene or trying a more lyrical approach, for example. While that's fine for many writers—I like a lyrical, slower approach sometimes, too—I find that I have little patience for stories that don't get started quickly. As well, I have read so many stories by now that I think—think being the key word here—less and less about whether I'm good enough as a writer, as I used to, and more about what I'm trying to do in a particular story or poem. It's given me a sense of place. There's nothing like a litmag for judging your own work. If you see what's out there being submitted, some of it truly excellent and breathtaking, but equally as much vomitous and awful, you can judge for yourself where your work falls in that range, and can sense much more accurately what you have to work on.

How much of Breaking It Down is “autobiographical” in spirit, if not fact?

It's all autobiographical in spirit. Completely, unequivocally. I have felt all these emotions.

As for the actual facts of the stories, yes, of course, all true. I have been a child who lost his sister, a Harley-riding punk expecting his first child, a woman trying to heal her husband with sex, a woman sleeping with her young brother-in-law, and perhaps especially, considering your blog, a veteran cocksman of many a ménage a trois and swinger's event.

Shape-shifting does come in handy for a writer! Many of the stories in your collection deal with sexuality and its consequences. Was it easy or hard to write the sex scenes? What role does sex play in your stories in contrast to the classic agenda of erotica? (Which I’ll define here as to arouse as well as reveal character—the role of porn is simply to arouse).

The sex comes, pardon the expression, pretty easily for me. I mean, there's the point-A into slot-B notion of sex in stories (nearly a must for contemporary stories with any grit), and there's what I try to do, which is to say what happens, how it happens, and to reveal what details seem most germane to the characters. In 'No One Left to Care About the Fat Man,' from SmokeLong Quarterly, the narrator's wife shaves her pubes. Nothing remarkable about that, and in the moment of writing, I had no intent of anything symbolic, I was simply trying to show the wife's desperation and the husband's complete inability to relate, but I realized later there's probably something deeper going on. She's laid herself bare, her most intimate parts, brain excluded, and he's rejected her. But to actually answer your question, I don't see much difference between erotica and litfic, except that one arouses while revealing character, and one doesn't, generally, but each can do the same thing for the other, given the right circumstances, if that makes sense.

It makes a lot of sense, we’re definitely on the same page there. Now, tell me about the process of arranging the stories in Breaking It Down. Were you trying to achieve a particular effect or experience for the reader?

I meant to keep my favorite stories at the beginning and end, selfishly, and to achieve something like a wave theory: a big wave comes in, maybe a couple smaller ones, another big one, maybe three smaller, then a big one, all having different impact, but all of them getting you wet, too.

“Wet”? You know, Rusty, we really do have a lot in common, but on to the signature questions here at Sex, Food, and Writing. Describe your dream writing project (marketability doesn’t matter here)—and what is next for you as a writer?

In a perfect world, I'd take the first three months of the year to write a novel draft, a month or so for poems exclusively, and whatever I felt like the remainder of the time, editing and writing as I saw fit, which is pretty much the life I have now, minus the novel. ;-)

To wrap things up, I’d like to pose two questions that I’ll ask all authors I interview on my blog. The first asks for a little background on the inspiration for an image or scene in your work. One of the most memorable images in Breaking It Down for me—one that will change my view of erections forever—is from your wonderful opening story “What Needs to Be Done.” A woman is having a literal roll in the hay with her nineteen-year-old brother-in-law:
“Purl had laid the blanket out already, wisps of hay stuck to his hairless chest. As I loosened his jeans, it wagged at me like a finger, an accusation I could never answer to anyone’s satisfaction but my own.”

So, how did you come up with this remarkable image?

I have no idea. I put my fingers to the keys, it came out. I wish I had a mystical explanation. I will say that's one of the few images I used that I knew instinctively was exactly right.

Finally, describe a perfect meal that would be guaranteed to seduce you—at least into an intimate discussion of the writing life by candlelight, if you have other commitments that don’t allow for more!

The perfect meal, if I'm feeling remotely cultured: sushi, sashimi, a full bottle of Bombay Sapphire, a plentiful supply of limes and tonic. There's something so erotic about the proximity of fingers and mouths and slippery fishies, the hot towels, an inattentive wait staff—many things become possible, given those circumstances. On the other hand, a good band and some cheap beer, liberally applied, with a plate of cheese and bacon fries with ranch dressing would work just as well. Fuck the calories.

The inattentive wait staff is definitely key—especially if you’re in one of those private tatami rooms. Thanks so much for stopping by, Rusty. It was a pleasure chatting with you and best of luck with your new novel.