Hey, it's Sunday, my first back at home in a while, and what should greet me upon my return but a witty new post at F-Stop by Lucy Felthouse on the exposure erotica writers face when they use their own names, along with musings on the questions we're all asked about the work we do.
The most popular--"Do you write from experience?" Lucy has her illuminating answer, and I know it's different for each writer, but it being Sunday and all, I thought I'd share mine over coffee and my neighbor's delicious homemade banana bread. (Here, have another slice, it's good isn't it?)
And my answer is... yes, yes, YES!
I'm not ashamed to admit it.
Now I haven't done absolutely everything I've written about in terms of the actual partners, settings, and details, but I guarantee you the spirit and sensibility of my stories all come from something very real that I've experienced, felt, fantasized, lived and above all care about. I believe I owe that to my readers. Perhaps it does limit me to write about things that did happen and that could happen to an ordinary jill or joe, especially in a genre that is very much about breaking boundaries, but "realistic sex" is, perhaps not surprisingly, a fairly unpopulated corner of the erotica genre. But I've always preferred open spaces to crowds....
That said, I also agree with Lucy that our imaginations are the key to writing a good story, whether it's transforming material from real life into a narrative or shaping fantasy into a compelling realistic scene. What is sex without imagination after all?
Thanks to Lucy for another thought-provoking F-Stop post (and be sure to check out the link to her full list of annoying questions!)
I thoroughly enjoyed Lucy's f-stop, and I'm thoroughly glad to have you back in blogland!
And I so love your answer to the question of what an author has experienced.
Especially ...but "realistic sex" is, perhaps not surprisingly, a fairly unpopulated corner of the erotica genre. But I've always preferred open spaces to crowds....
Hear, hear. Glad to be sharing those open spaces with you!
Hey Craig--yeah, it's good to be back and I've got a lot of catching up to do with blog posts. While it is pretty nice out here on the open range, it is very nice to have some company, too, pard'ner :-).
ha..you know that i m utterly in love with the fact that you are back in blogland..:-)
and i somehow always knew..hoped..-prayed!!! that you write from your own expiriences and things:-)
and i m with craig..i love that answer of yours too
Thank you, Danielle, you know I do it in great part for you ;-). And if it's not true, it's truer than true, if you know what I mean!
Lots more to come in the next few weeks in terms of excerpts and columns and all. Stay tuned!
I too love your commentary about writing about "realistic sex"! A bit off topic perhaps, but that's one of the reasons I so appreciate seeing condoms mentioned in erotic fiction (and mention them myself)—to me, they just seem a realistic part of sex. (It's one of the things I especially appreciated about "Waxing Eloquent" in Fast Girls!)
And of course, delighted to see you back! Glad you're home safely, and I hope you found your travels beautiful and refreshing.
Thanks, Emerald. I hope to have vacation photos up soon!
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